FATHERLESSNESS
AND ITS IMPACT!
1)
BEHAVIORAL DISORDERS/ RUNAWAYS/ HIGH SCHOOL
DROPOUTS/CHEMICAL ABUSERS/ SUICIDES
- 85% of all children
that exhibit behavioral disorders come from
fatherless homes. (Source: Center for Disease
Control)
- 90% of all homeless
and runaway children are from fatherless homes
(Source: U.S. D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census)
- 71% of all high
school dropouts come from fatherless homes. (Source:
National Principals Association Report on the State
of High Schools.)
- 75% of all
adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come
from fatherless homes. (Source: Rainbows for all
God's Children.)
- 63% of youth
suicides are from fatherless homes. (Source: U.S.
D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census)
2)
JUVENILE DELINQUENCY/ CRIME/ GANGS
- 80% of rapists
motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless
homes. (Source: Criminal Justice & Behavior, Vol 14,
p. 403-26, 1978)
- 70% of juveniles in
state-operated institutions come from fatherless
homes. (Source: U.S. Dept. of Justice, Special
Report, Sept 1988)
- 85% of all youths
sitting in prisons grew up in a fatherless home.
(Source: Fulton Co. Georgia jail populations, Texas
Dept. of Corrections 1992)
California has the nation's
highest juvenile incarceration rate and the nation's
highest juvenile unemployment rate.
Vincent Schiraldi,
Executive Director, Center on Juvenile and Criminal
Justice, "What Hallinan's Victory Means," San Francisco
Chronicle (12/28/95).
These statistics
translate to mean that children from a fatherless home
are:
- 5 times more likely
to commit suicide.
- 32 times more
likely to run away.
- 20 times more
likely to have behavioral disorders.
- 14 times more
likely to commit rape
- 9 times more likely
to drop out of high school.
- 10 times more
likely to abuse chemical substances.
- 9 times more likely
to end up in a state-operated institution.
- 20 times more
likely to end up in prison.
Juveniles have become the
driving force behind the nation's alarming increases in
violent crime, with juvenile arrests for murder, rape,
robbery and aggravated assault growing sharply in the
past decade as pistols and drugs became more available,
and expected to continue at the same alarming
rate during the next
decade. "Justice Dept. Issues Scary Report on Juvenile
Crime," San Francisco Chronicle (9/8/95). "Crime Wave
Forecast With Teenager Boom," San Francisco Chronicle
(2/15/95).
Criminal behavior
experts and social scientists are finding intriguing
evidence that the epidemic of youth violence and gangs
is related to the breakdown of the two-parent family.
"New Evidence That Quayle Was Right: Young Offenders
Tell What Went Wrong at Home," San Francisco Chronicle
(12/9/94).
3)
TEENAGE PREGNANCY
"Daughters of single
parents are 53% more likely to marry as teenagers, 164%
more likely to have a premarital birth, and 92% more
likely to dissolve their own marriages. All these
intergenerational consequences of single motherhood
increase the likelihood of chronic welfare dependency."
Barbara Dafoe Whitehead,
Atlantic Monthly (April 1993).
Daughters of single
parents are 2.1 times more likely to have children
during their teenage years than are daughters from
intact families with 71% of teenage pregnancies coming
from children of single parents.
U.S. Dept. of Health and
Human Services.
4)
CHILD ABUSE
The U.S. Department of
Health and Human Services states that there were more
than 1,000,000 documented child abuse cases in 1990. In
1983, it found that 60% of perpetrators were women with
sole custody. Shared parenting can significantly reduce
the stress associated with sole custody, and reduce the
isolation of children in abusive situations by allowing
both parents' to monitor the children's health and
welfare and to protect them.
5)
POVERTY
"The National Fatherhood
Institute reports that 18 million children live in
single-parent homes. Nearly 75% of American children
living in single-parent families will experience poverty
before they turn 11. Only 20% in two-parent families
will experience poverty."
Source: Melinda Sacks,
"Fatherhood in the 90's: Kids of absent fathers more "at
risk"," San Jose Mercury News (10/29/95).
"The feminization of
poverty is linked to the feminization of custody, as
well as linked to lower earnings for women. Greater
opportunity for education and jobs through shared
parenting can help break the cycle."
David Levy, Ed., The Best
Parent is Both Parents (1993).
6)
KIDNAPPING
Family abductions were
163,200 compared to non-family abductions of 200-300.
The parental abductions were attributed to the parents'
disenchantment with the legal system.
David Levy, Ed., The
Best Parent is Both Parents (1993),
citing a report from the
U.S. Department of Justice, Office of Juvenile Justice
(May 1990).
Effects on children of
removing a father from the life of a child.
"Based on our clinical
experience with a number of latency aged and adolescent
girls whose parents divorced during their oedipal years,
we postulate that particular coping patterns emerge in
response to the absence of the father, which may
complicate the consolidation of positive feminine
identification in many female children, and is
observable during the latency years. We illustrate both
the existence of these phenomena and implications for
treatment:
- Intensified
separation anxiety
- Denial and
avoidance of feelings associated with loss of
father
- Identification with
the lost object
- object hunger for
males."
"In an earlier study by
Kalter and Rembar at [Children's Psychiatric Hospital,
University of Michigan], a sample of 144 child and
adolescent patients, whose parents had divorced,
presented [for evaluation and
treatment] with three most
commonly occurring problems:
-63% Subjective
psychological problem (defined as anxiety, sadness,
pronounced moodiness, phobias, and depression)
-56% Poor grades or grades
substantially below ability and/or recent past
performance -43% Aggression toward parents
Important features of
the subgroup of 32 latency aged girls were in the same
order:
- 69% indicating
subjective psychological distress
- 47% academic
problems
- 41% aggression
toward parents.
Clinical Observations on
Interferences of Early Father Absence in the Achievement
of Femininity by R. Lohr, C. g, A. Mendell and B. Riemer,
Clinical Social Work Journal, V. 17, #4, Winter, 1989
"In summary, 30% of the
children in the present study experienced a marked
decrease in their academic performance following
parental separation, and this was evident three years
later. Access to both parents seemed to be the most
protective factor, in that it was associated with better
academic adjustment...
Moreover, data revealed
that noncustodial parents (mostly fathers) were very
influential in their children's development...These data
also support the interpretation that the more time a
child spends with the
noncustodial noncustodial
parent the better the overall adjustment of the child."
Factors Associated with
Academic Achievement in Children Following Parental
Separation, L. Bisnaire, PhD; P. Firestone, PhD; D.
Rynard, MA Sc American Journal of Orthopsychiatry,
60(1), January, 1990
"While in most instances
adolescents from recently disrupted household were more
negatively affected by their parents' divorce, some
findings did identify long-term effects of earlier
disruption. Adolescent girls who had experienced
parental divorce when they were younger than six or
between six and nine years old reported becoming
involved with alcohol or drugs in proportions higher
than did girls from intact families.
Adolescent girls whose
experience of divorce occurred before they were six more
frequently reported skipping school than did girls from
intact families or girls whose parents divorced when
they were between the ages of six and nine."
"These findings
underscore the vulnerability of adolescents whose
parents have divorced within the last five years. The
impact of the marital disruption was most pronounced
among girls, who skipped school more frequently,
reported more depress behavior, and described social
support in more negative terms than did boys from
recently disrupted homes."
The Effects of Marital
Disruption on Adolescents: Time as a Dynamic A. Frost,
PhD; B. Pakiz, EdM, American Journal of Orthopsychiatry,
60(4), October, 1990
"Among teenage and adult
populations of females, parental divorce has been
associated with lower self-esteem, precocious sexual
activity, greater delinquent-like behavior, and more
difficulty establishing gratifying, lasting adult
heterosexual relationships. It is especially intriguing
to note that, in these studies, the parental divorce
typically occurred years before any difficulties were
observed..
"At the time of the
marital separation, when (as is typical) father leaves
the family home and becomes progressively less involved
with his children over the ensuing years, it appears
that young girls experience the emotional loss of father
egocentrically as a rejection of them. While more common
among
preschool and early
elementary school girls, we have observed this
phenomenon clinically in later elementary school and
young adolescent children.
Here the continued lack
of involvement is experienced as an ongoing rejection by
him. Many girls attribute this rejection to their not
being pretty enough, affectionate enough, athletic
enough, or smart enough to please father and engage him
in regular, frequent contacts".
"Finally, girls whose
parents divorce may grow up without the day to day
experience of interacting with a man who is attentive,
caring and loving. The continuous sense of being valued
and loved as a female seems an especially key element in
the development of the conviction that one is indeed
femininely lovable. Without this regular source of
nourishment, a girl's sense of being valued as a female
does not seem to thrive."
Long-Term Effects of
Divorce on Children: A Developmental Vulnerability Model
Neil Kalter, Ph.D., University of Michigan, American
Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 57(4), October, 1987
"....When the
non-custodial parent is perceived as "lost," the young
adult is more depressed. When a divorce occurs, the
perception of the non-custodial father has been shown to
change in a negative direction, while the perception of
the mother (whether custodon-custodial) remains
relatively stable. "
"Because divorce is a
process, not an isolated event, the effects of the
divorce may be cumulative and early intervention would
therefore be beneficial.
The continued
involvement of the non- custodial parent in the child's
life appears crucial in preventing an intense sense of
loss in the child.... The importance of the relationship
with the non-custodial parent may also have implications
for the legal issues of custodial arrangements and
visitation.
The results of this study
indicate that arrangements where both parents are
equally involved with the child are optimal. When this
type of arrangement is not possible, the child's
continued relationship with the non-custodial parent
remains essential."
Young Adult Children of
Divorced Parents: Depression and the Perception of Loss,
Rebecca L. Drill, Ph.D., Harvard University. Journal of
Divorce, V. 10, #1/2, Fall/Winter 1986
"The impact of parental
divorce and subsequent father absence in the wake of
this event has long been thought to affect children
quite negatively. For instance, parental divorce and
father loss has been associated with difficulties in
school adjustment (e.g. Felner, Ginter, Boike, & Cowen),
Social Adjustment (e.g. Fry & Grover) and personal
adjustment (e.g. Covell & Turnbull)..."
"The results of the
present study suggest that father loss through divorce
is associated with diminished self-concepts in
children...at least for this sample of children from the
midwestern United States."
Children's Self
Concepts: Are They Affected by Parental Divorce and
Remarriage Thomas S. Parish, Journal of Social Behavior
and Personality, 1987, V 2, #4, 559-562
"It is ironic, and of
some interest, that we have subjected joint custody to a
level and intensity of scrutiny that was never directed
towa the traditional post-divorce arrangement (sole
legal and physical custody to the mother and two
weekends each month of visiting to the father.)
Developmental and
relationship theory should have alerted the mental
health field to the potential immediate and long range
consequences for the child of only seeing a parent four
days each month. And yet until recently, there was no
particular challenge to this traditional post-divorce
parenting arrangement, despite growing evidence that
such post-divorce relationships were not sufficiently
nurturing or stabilizing for many children and
parents."
"There is some evidence
that in our well-meaning efforts to save children in the
immediate post-separation period from anxiety,
confusion, and the normative divorce-engendered
conflict, we have set the stage in the longer run for
the more ominous symptoms of anger, depression, and a
deep sense of loss by depriving the child of the
opportunity to maintain a full relationship with each
parent."
Examining Resistance to
Joint Custody, Monograph by Joan Kelly, Ph.D. (associate
of Judith Wallerstein, Ph.D) From the 1991 Book Joint
Custody and Shared Parenting, second edition, Guilford
Press, 1991.
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